The Practice

A Relational Practice

This is not session-based coaching. This is ongoing relational practice designed to rewire how you relate to yourself—which changes everything.

Root-Work Mentorship

When you were born, all you knew was love. Mom and dad showed you how to DO love. Before you had language, before you had logic, before you had memory, they showed you: How love works.

Not because anyone taught you... but because you felt it.

Those early experiences became your Love Wound—a subconscious pattern that still determines who you're drawn to, how you show up in relationships, and where you drain your cup.

Root-Work Mentorship is a weekly practice where we identify that pattern, interrupt it at the nervous system level, and integrate new responses until they become second nature.

This work is long-term, weekly, relational, and root-focused—not session-based.

How It Works

Weekly One-on-One Practice

We meet every week for 60 minutes via Zoom. This isn't therapy—it's practice. We identify your pattern, run new plays, and integrate them through repetition until they're automatic.

Root Identification

In the first 1-2 sessions, we identify your specific Love Wound—the subconscious pattern formed in childhood that's been running your relationships ever since. This is where the "aha moments" happen.

Integration Over Time

Real change happens through repetition. Just like learning a sport, you don't get better by understanding the theory—you get better by practicing until your body knows what to do without thinking. Most clients experience significant shifts within 3-4 months.

Year-Long Commitment

This work requires 12 months of weekly practice. Your patterns were built over decades—they don't change in a moment. Insight can happen quickly. Integration happens through repetition and relationship.

Investment

Solo Practice

$12,000/year (paid in full) or $1,200/month

Couples Practice

$18,000/year (paid in full) or $1,800/month

Both include weekly sessions + Sanctuary community access

The Root-Work Practice Circle

A monthly, relational practice for people who are done trying to fix themselves and ready to stay with what's real.

This is not traditional coaching. It's not problem-solving. And it's not about self-improvement.

The Practice Circle exists for those who want to practice awareness over time—together—so insight doesn't disappear the moment life gets uncomfortable.

What's Included

  • Two live group practice sessions per month
  • One private session per month, held within the practice
  • Continuity, rhythm, and relationship

What It Is Not

  • Not therapy
  • Not crisis support
  • Not drop-in coaching
  • Not a substitute for Root-Work Mentorship

Investment

$250/month

Which Practice Is Right for You?

FeatureRoot-Work MentorshipPractice Circle
FrequencyWeekly (52 sessions/year)Monthly (3 sessions/month)
FormatPrivate 1-on-12 group + 1 private
Commitment12 monthsMonth-to-month
Investment$12K-$18K/year$250/month
Best ForDeep root-level pattern workOngoing awareness practice
Weekly Sessions

Not sure which is right for you? Apply here and we'll figure it out together.

Apprenticeship

Some people who come into this work discover something unexpected.

Not a desire to help. Not a calling to fix. But a quiet recognition:

"I want to learn how to stay with others the way I learned to stay with myself."

For those people, there is an apprenticeship.

It is not a training. There is no certification. There is no timeline you can sign up for.

Apprenticeship emerges after long-term root work, lived practice, and discernment. It unfolds slowly, relationally, and under supervision.

Its purpose is not to create coaches—but to form people capable of holding space without rescuing, fixing, or performing.

Most people will never enter this path. A few will know when it's time.

When it is, the invitation is unmistakable.

This is not something you pursue. It is something you are invited into.